Starting out

Alright I'm starting this blog at the encouragement of my BFF. You know who you are. I think I will start with some history about me.........what to say?? I am recently divorced, I was married for more than 25 years.......never thought I would get divorced even though when I finally did it and left I was more than ready. I did my tour of duty as a good wife and good mom. Actually I was a great mom and still am. My sons are grown and now appericate the kind of mom I am. Cant say that about my ex husband. Leaving the ex was the best thing I have ever done for myself...........because of him I have struggled with self-image, self-confidence, self-worth and everything else self. I honestly believe if I would have stayed with him I would have had a nervous break down and totally lost myself. I'm sure that sounds strange but it took me a little while for my real personality to come back out. Maybe some of the friends I have will tell a little about me (see what people think of me)

One thing I have learned since I am on my own and have experienced sex is that I am not "cold or fridged" . Just because I wasn't interested in having sex with my ex after he was talking sex or having cyber sex with women on the internet doesn't make me cold.......but it does make him an unfeeling selfish ass.