wanna date?

So here I sit, at home alone, watching tv and doing stuff on my computer.......again.  I wonder why?  As much as a like to go out to the bars and hang out, I know I'm not going to find the type of man I would really want to hang out and be with.  I mean I guess it could happen but probably not.  So where or how do you go about finding a man that would be what I'm looking for?  Guess I'm clueless because I always heard the grocery store is a good place......well that is where I meet my ex husband and I work in one.  See how well that is going for me.......so do you try a dating service.  When I am on facebook I see all these advertisements for dating.....older men, men over 40, not all men are jerks (yes that is what it says), active men over 40.  All that stuff and I wonder if I should try it......I wouldn't mind but I know one thing for sure I'm not paying to find a date. How for real is the service and the men that use them?  All I know is I'm not willing to play games.  Not to mention the pictures of the men they use on those advertisments....wow I would like one of them but I'm not so lucky.  So that still leaves me with what to do?  Here's the number someone call and see how legit they are.......1-317-616-7185