what's the deal with men????

I have a friend that was starting to see someone, take your time to get to know the man but you really like him.  After all the crap that you have been thru you want to take your time and make sure of what's going on. You talk and talk with the new man, there is so much you like about him that you start thinking this might turn into something.  You get to feel like a teenager again and get to make out but still not sure how far you really want to go........then finally you get there and the man can't get it up. I'm Sorry Pool-girl!!!!! Been there had that happen to me.......and when it does the first thing is WTF......but then you start to wonder what the fuck is wrong with me, especially if the man has been all over you, sweet talking you with how beautiful, sexy, hot, gorgous or whatever they say to sweet talk you.  I don't know what the problem with the man is.......if it is a ED issue, over excitment, they are closet gay, or they are just full of shit.  But when it is time to get down to the dance in the sheets and he can't get it up alot falls back onto the woman as to what the hell is wrong with me.  I can't figure it out and truly don't care anymore......i basically think men are full of shit.......nothing personal against any one man but I'm so over it.  I deal with alot of self confidence issues anyway without having to deal with a man's limp noodle problems.  If you can't get it up then let me know because I will understand and can be patient but don't fuckin tell me "I don't know?? This hasn't ever happened to me before"........because I promise it is not the first time it has happen, and yes it counts when you are spanking the monkey and can't finish yourself off.   After all that sweet talking why would you mke it to be like it was my fault for your limp noodle issue.  To be honest because of the meds I have a hard time getting to the big "O" but don't mean I don't enjoy all the action.  I think from now on if I ever find anonther man I would like to dance in the sheets with I'm gonna tell him........fuck me like there is no tomorrow but maybe I will and maybe I won't fall over the edge........but it's not you if I don't........it is me!!!!!